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*ensativeguy010
writes:ok, well lately ive been having more attractive girls flirt with me and stuff, but when i was 17 (20 now) i didnt really think i could get with very attractive girls. but now it seems like they are coming around more often, but sometimes i still feel like some are "out of my league" but is it possible that some girls just think they arent good enough as well, like do they think that maybe im out of their league or something of the sorts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): leagues arent real, what matters is attraction. girls get that too and it cant be helped. confidence is key and thats definitly something you need to remember. just look for the signs of interest, body language and all that
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Years ago my brother used to ask out every beautiful girl that he saw. I swear he would hit on a 100 girls a week. I always laughed at him because I thought that he was out of his league. He would get turned down most of the time. He was never bothered by rejection but there were still a large number of girls that went out with him.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 If a guy feels like he is out of someones league he should be putting in more time to improve those things he can and accept those things he can't
Education is one really high up there on League.
Character is high up there.
Responsibility is high up there.
Planning a future is up there.
All of these things lead to confidence.
This goes for girls too.
No matter where you are at in your life everyone should have a 5 year plan even if things don't work out.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Yes, it's possible. Males can be insecure, and females can be insecure as well.
But ,more probably, they just expect you to be more proactive if you like them, rather than sit there and wait for pretty girls to flock at you.
I know I know- it's not mandatory for the man to do the chasing, women can take the initiative too etc.etc.-well, what about meeting each other half way ?
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reader, Cupiddd86  +, writes (20 April 2011):
Hey there,
Obviously both genders feel the same; in the end it all boils down to confidence. Women love a confident man; you don't have to be the most "attractive" guy out there. I put attractive like that because attractive is subjective. If you are fully confident then a thing as out of my league doesn't exist :) But yeah both genders struggle with confidence issues so 'some girls' do think they are not good enough as well ;)
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