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We want the real thing but are afraid of the consequences!

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Question - (20 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2011)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *osie writes:

hi all. I have a weerd question. Me and my girlfriend love each other. pleas don't think this is weerd but we both love each other thats certain. Sex is not the problem. we are comfertable alot with each other. half naked aswell.

My question is that we pretend to have sex with the same efect with my penis on the spot.but clothes on. no penetration. But we both feel we don't want children . We are both 18 . cant support that now. So the question is . We both feel we need more and want sex. but scared of a oops and then our life is ruind, What should we do???

What should we do. ?

We are scared about the child picture in our head. But both want the real thing. What should we do?

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A male reader, oosie South Africa +, writes (21 April 2011):

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ok. Well weel see/.Thanx all. MAby it's better to keep the urge in waiting for it till we bothe finish this year

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011):

get your girlfriend to hate the implant

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (20 April 2011):

mizz.butterflies agony auntwear a condom and ask ur girlfriend to go to the gyno and take the contraceptive pill.

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