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writes:How can you tell if a guy is feeding you lines, or is actually interested??? I'm talking about when you first meet someone, not while you are dating someone. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone!!!
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reader, Patriot +, writes (20 April 2011):
What do you mean by genuine? You can tell if a man has an honest character by spending enough time around him. No one can lie forever. You can also ask people who know him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 April 2011):
 in the beginning it is hard to tell... the test of time is crucial to learn if someone is genuine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): You can't. You genuinely just can't.
"A genuine guy will show some nervousness because he doesn't want to lose you and will show caring behavior even when it doesn't lead him to sex with you." I've faked this just to get laid and it worked too.
Trust your instincts OP always, if it feels too good to be true then it is. If something feels "off" about a guy but you can't put your finger on it, then something is definitely up.
OP you'd be surprized the lengths a guy will go to just to get laid some will spend a long time patiently playing the long, slow, "caring" game. Until your guard drops and you sleep with him. Most won't wait too long though.
Actions must match the words, and if a guys is very insistent on going somewhere to be alone with you, you know he's only after one thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): If he backs up all the lines he's feeding you with genuine dates then he is probably interested. It's typically not a good sign if he's thick on words right from the start.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Generally I would say that if they sound like lines they probably are. Like if it is just one comment after the other. A genuine guy will show some nervousness because he doesn't want to lose you and will show caring behavior even when it doesn't lead him to sex with you. In the end it can be really hard to tell and sometimes you just don't know until you spend some time with that person. Time gives it away all the time.
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