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female
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36-40,
*icoleray143
writes:I feel like i am in a sexless relationship but i am in Love with him so i don't know where to turn, I have tryed talking to him about it but that hasn't solved nothing, it is sort of like he don't care when and how often i want to have sex, it is only when he is ready and wants it, and even then it's Great sex with him but to fast, no matter how much foreplay i try to keep going with and last longer that don't work, at first we had sex once a week then once a month now once every 3 months, i am going to go Crazy. My Question is how should i go about telling him how i feel?? Since i have told him once before and he is aware how i feel about our sex life should i just flat out tell him 'I need more sex and if he cant't give me that then i have to move on' I Love him and everything else in our relationship is perfect so i don't want to say how i feel the wrong way or end up breaking up, i would feel so bad if it was over Sex we didn't work out and i would never cheat on him.
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reader, sgore11 +, writes (30 September 2011):
Ma'am, I'm in the same boat as you. First of all, it would be wise to avoid ultimatums when talking about your sexual frustrations with him. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and it usually serves as a representation of how the relationship is functioning as a whole. If you haven't already tried asking him why he's become less interested in sex, I suggest you do so in a very delicate way. Men can be very sensitive when it comes to conversations about their sexual behavior. Second, if he truly doesn't care about your sexual gratification as much as his, then it seems like he's being selfish. In that case, I'm sure that no one would blame you for ending the relationship. After all, sexual dissatisfaction can lead to depression and other ugly things. I hope this helps!
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