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anonymous
writes:Hello all. :)Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex. I was a virgin before him,and am a little bit clueless still to things. He's had other partners before me.The sex is great,but I'm wondering about something. After sex, when he pulls out, he says his penis hurts. Is this normal? Why does it do that? He says guys are sensitive after coming, but pain?He is healthy down there, and has never had any STD's.Thank you so much in advance for your replies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Thank God for that answer cause I am 38 years old never came across this before until I started dating the guy that I am right now. I wondered and was going to ask him about it.I guess this sort of is a good thing???
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (21 April 2011):
 Glad to help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Thank you, guys! :)
You've eased my mind, and I can feel better now about it. I guess I should take it as a compliment that I can make him cum that hard,huh?
Thank you all again. :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (20 April 2011):
 That's normal! A lot of women's clitorises are also painful to the touch right after orgasm, and some can't handle direct stimulation even before it!
Dirtball's right. He probably has really intense orgasms, and anything that rubs on it afterwards is just too much stimulation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): It could be that you are really tight and his penis is getting chaffed. You might try some lube to keep it really wet. I've had that happen to me before and it stings like you just poured alcohol on an open wound.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): When my boyfriend cleans himself after we make love he winces a lot when he touches his penis. I just think it is very sensitive and is normal.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 April 2011):
Sometimes it gets very sensitive, especially after an intense orgasm. It can be painful if stimulated further. It's called the refractory period and has varying degrees for different people.
My guess, you make him cum very hard, and that makes things extremely sensitive for a while afterword. Nothing to be worried about though.
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