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writes:I was in love with a most beautiful girl who also loves me very much. but suddenly she was married with other whom she never knows (her parent's compelled her to marry).Now we love each other much more than in the past. then why can't she just leave her husband whom she never loved? why is she afraid of her parents who forced her to marry when she wasn't interested? she now wants to come back to me? i also want her?is it right to do so? Am i be guilty if i take her now? Reply to this Question
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reader, Nee-raa-zone +, writes (24 April 2011):
Nee-raa-zone is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah these feelings always bothering me................i can't leave her coz c is all i ever had...........i don't know what happens if i don't get her...........i just hope my feelings towards never die............beyonds everythings that comes to us...............i really miss her.....................but i don't want to miss her anymore...........coz c promised me to come back after some years.......but i think this few years never end...........so what can i do????????????????????I really can't leave her, never??????
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Pardon me if I'm wrong, but this girl couldnt stand up to her parents and fight for you, when she had the chance, what makes you think she's going to break her marriage, go against both families (her parents' and her husbands') and come to you now? Isint it like a thousand times more difficult and complicated now, than it was earlier??Think about the consequences of your actions before you act. If she does leave her husband, can you take care of her and provide for her? Your age suggests you're in the 16-17 yrs age group. What is the legal age for marriage in Nepal? Can you even legally marry her, if she does get a divorce from her husband?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): I truly despise arranged marriages. Especially if it causes someone to marry another whom they have never met and have no feelings for! That can cause great pain to people emotionally.
I don't know what situation is between all parties involved but if you love her, she loves you and has no feelings for her arranged partner. I would say go for it. Her family would probably be completely against you for this. I don't know these people but when someone tries to interfere in an arranged marriage it can get nasty.
If you both surely love each other, and you both have to make sure of this. Nothing should get in the way of that and you should fight for each other.
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