Why is he behaving like this? Does he have low self esteem? Is he gay? Does he care about me?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

We have been in love for past 2 years and had not met each other.It was this month that we met .He seems smitten during the first meeting and in the second meeting insisted on sex.(we did have phone sex before several times and we were online friends).I discovered that he had physical problems like he could not move his neck or back much.Sex was over in just 10 minutes(did his neck or back hurt?) but he masturbated rather than ejaculating inside me.There was no kissing or love talks immediately after that and he dropped me home.He did phone a couple of times and told me we can meet out again but did not really meet me.His behavior was like this even before we met .He would phone few days continuously and talk for hours and then pull back for weeks.Does he have low self esteem?Is he gay?Does he really care?What should I do....forget him and move on?I know he will call again.Tell lies about how women are attracted towards him and how rich he is.He might also say how he goes swimming and dancing though I know it is just not possible for him.I have shown my love openly ...but does he need it?

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