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writes:Ive been in a relation with my boyfriend for two years and sic months, i am 15 and he is 18...i have cheated on him twice and have told him about it because i felt horrible. I know i will no longer do it...i love him...Well anyways, the last time i cheated on him was when we had avyear together, and he still think im going to do it again...I had to move to florida and he ended up going with me because he really loves me, so he says. Everything was going well, we didnt share a room because of my moms rules but i would lay in bed with him when ever i could. And he would kiss me and tell me he loves me...nothing went wrong but he was missing his mom and feeling sad and it got me sad...we lived in florida for three months, my mom later decided to move back to chicago. Me and my b.f were both excited, i was mostly excited cause he was going to be happy. And was still going to live with me. We got to chicago and things just changed. He seems different, since hes been here he hasnt slept in the house once...he slept in his moms house. on the second day we went to the school to transfer in and a guy said hi to me. My b.f got mad and broke up with me...my Mom droped him off at his moms house and i called him. he said he need some time alone. But hes still with me...he hasnt given me a kiss nor said that he loves me. He doesnt call me and he still expects me to be okay...i told him how sad ive been feeling and he said im being so selfish. I dont understand what im doing wrong, he cheated on me before to. I cry in front of him and he tells me that i better stop or he'll leave. He always raises his voice at me and i dont, i never have. I dont wanna loose him, he was my first one....i dont know what to do, someone please help me. Im becoming depressed. it seems like he doesnt care anymore. Why is he acting this way?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 November 2010):
 This relationship has run it's course. With all the amount of cheating done by you and him the trust no longer exists. Hence him getting mad at you for that guy saying "hi". Plus, he seems to be done playing house with you..the boy misses his family. Let him go..because of the no trust factor that's why this relationship isn't working. Find a guy who is more your age range, and no cheating next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Sounds like it's time to move on. You're very young (even if you do feel older/more mature). You will meet someone else at some point. This is just something that happens to everyone, you're not alone. Keep yourself busy and occupied, and move on. If you two are meant to be then you'll end up together again at some point. But right now I think you probably both need time apart to focus on your own lives x
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