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writes:Why would a guy who broke up with me after a couple months of dating (and was rather nasty about it) want to still be friends. He continues to text me to just say "hi" even though I've told him I am not interested in a friendship with him. It's only been a couple weeks since the "break up" and he texted me a few times and imed me on FB. Everytime we talked on fb we had arguments. Yet he keeps going. What's going on in his head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): What if I am still into him physically?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): I'm going through a similar thing with a man who wanted me out of his life and yet continues to watch my website and occasionally sends me emaisl. I have no idea. I'm also baffled. But my friends say he must still have some interest for me.
I think this is true in your case too. He still holds some sexual passion for you, but yout personalities clash.
I think you should not have anything to do with this guy. Not only was he "nasty" but he sounds kind of nuts. It sounds to me like he has some kind of personal issues with you, involving power as you say he starts arguments with you on FB. You're probably an intelligent woman and this makes him feel threatened somehow, and, yet, he can't deny the attraction he feels for you.
I think this attraction makes him all the angrier.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 I doubt he is over you. He probably regrets breaking up with you. The more you try to push him away, the more he will try to talk to you. I suggest ignoring him. One day he will get the message.
I hope that helps.
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