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writes: well im a girl and im having my first attempts at masturbating, lol, the thing is, when i start rubbing my clit i can't go on with it, it's not like "painful" but i just feel like i have to stop? not because i think it's wrong or anything like that, it's just a bit of an overwhelming feeling? any advive would be really great, thanx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Natalie:) +, writes (12 November 2010):
It's normal for girls to be overwhelmed by those feelings. You just need to get used to it
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Oh honey, the overwhelming feeling is suppose to happen. Your body is probably just not used to the feeling. You are most likely approaching the Big O.
BTW I would just like to say, masturbation is a part of life and what you are doing is not wrong. Good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Hmm...its just an overwhelming feeling...you have to keep on rubbing it for ten - fifteen or even more minutes...the moment u feel the intense feeling come...don't let up...continue - you'll feel waves of pleasure....its awesome!
And if you still can't cum...try using water...guide a gentle stream of water onto ur clit...make sure nothing goes inside ur vagina though...i use warm water as it works for me...experiment with what you like...this definitely has to work:)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (12 November 2010):
Don't do anything your body tells you not to. If it's that you're coming close and the stimulation is too much, then maybe you need to use something else. Do you have a detachable shower head? I hear the massage setting on most of those does the trick. I'd recommend a vibrator, but you're a bit young to purchase one.
Golden rule, trust what your body tells you.
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