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writes:Okay to start things off Im 17 years old, and i've been dating my boyfriend, 20, for 9 months now. He moved away in July to about 1 hour away. Its been hard not to see him whenever i want too, but we settled on seeing each other on the weekends. One weekend he come down here the next I go up there. It seemed to be working until about 3 weeks ago. It was his turn and he only stayed for Saturday and left Saturday night. Last weekend It was my turn and he made me leave saturday night. And this weekend he is leaving Saturday afternoon. His excuse for is work. Plus during the week we ichat everynight and he always seems to be getting home later and later saying work is making him late. It just gets me suspicious and everytime I bring it up he always says youre the only one for me, id never cheat, etc. As much as I want to believe him I just dont have it in me. And when he calls me on breaks our phone convos used to last the whole time, 15 minutes, now maybe 5 max. Always makes up an excuse and I hear girls in the background. Ive told him many times if youre playing me, its over no second chances. Idk what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): k, sounds like you are already giving him a second chance as you think you know.
This says leave!
If he really isn't playing around and really is working he will get his shit together and stop utilising you as now he has you thinking just that, you are being utlilised for sex until he gets another girl that he is sure isn't going to leave him, and he moves on. Most likely he will just be utlising her too.
So, as I say, you think he is up to no good, and most likely you are right since you know your boyfriend and his acting distant. So Leave him, he will prove otherwise.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Well sweetie first of you need to be able to trust him or else there is no point in being with him, distance does make it harder to trust someone i understand that, but he might be telling the truth about work, and am sure there is girls he works with thats probably who you heard, i doubt that he would be ringing you if he was with another girl, i think you need to try and take your mind of this maybe go out with friends and enjoy a social life. He is making the effort to come and see you. has he been acting any different as in being distant with you when you do see each other, ask him if he could take a weekend of work so that you can spend more time with him.
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