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30-35,
*arah baghdad
writes:hii am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all proud of me because my grades are good and better than the regular student that was born in America.lot of teachers helped me during this period. but there was a teacher who is older than me in 15 years he is 32 and im 17 , I don't know where to start about this story because im so confused……………we're both from different countries ,religions. and we speak different languages but how did we understand each other that much?he helped me a lot and he was trying to excuse me from some of the assignments of his class because he thinks it really hard for me . but i had never listened to him and i always had tried to have it done on time or the day after its due. so he nominated me as his best student and I got a certificate from him that says im a special student because im a hard worker and etc.... he wrote really nice words about me ........ since that time I start to feel something toward him … we had so many funny situations together, one time I told him I was going back to my country because my visa is done here so I have to leave, he sent me back an email saying how upset he feels because im leaving and how he is gonna miss me so much and how i was so special student to him. He is famous in the school because he is so funny and so cool and fun to be around. From all his students he chose me to be this special student . That gave me more support to continue achieving my goals .And the first term is done . And I had him again for the second term and I was lucky . We got much closer to each other because he knows whats hard for me what I need help with and he knows how to deal with my problem in English … he wasn’t an English teacher but he tried to make it easier for me to understand his class .We had lot of funny situations that I still remember and I smile every time I remember it especially that I was the most student that he makes fun with and the last day of school I asked him to sign for me and he wrote a letter for me (a page) thanking me about being a positive influence in his life and how I possibly one of the most nicest people that he had ever metNow after all of that I feel like he was my life …. The school ended and all my friends don’t really understand my feelings as much as he does when I am in his class . I feel so safe with him because I feel like he is going to safe me whenever I ask him for help and even when I don’t ask I know he will be there for me to help . I thanked him for the nice letter that he wrote for me and every time he look at me I feel so special and it has all the feelings of (not sure but …(Love) and respect . I love his eyes What should I do?? Stay a way from him? Because I don’t want him to know what I liked him. But I want him stay with me and …. I don’t but …. Help me to not get him hurt because of me.i know this is normal thing to happenbut in my case its different . because sometimes i feel he likes me to but he can't do anything because he is gonna lose his job because we're not allowed to love our teachers.sec: my goal or what i want is how to get closer to him? i don't wanna be the one who starts it !!my grades are going down now, even tho I spend most of the time studying but I keep thinking about him, does he like me? does he love me but hes waiting till i graduate? what am I suppose to do?
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reader, sarah baghdad +, writes (12 November 2010):
sarah baghdad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he is not married, and I feel sometimes he likes me 2, but I can't really tell, how is he suppose to be acting around the student he likes? is anything going to change when I graduate?
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (12 November 2010):
Don't do anything that might put him in trouble. Remember that teacher-student relations are illegal in the states. I know exactly how you feel. I have had the exact same experience.
Is this guy married?
Feel free to message me anytime
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