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*aturn2469
writes:Ok, my boyfriend kisses some of his Guy friends and not just a little Peck I have talked to him about it n told him it really bothers me that I feel like he's cheating, he stopped for a while but only after a huge argument about it n now he's started doing it again, should I be worried? Is he gay, or bisexual? Reply to this Question
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reader, saturn2469 +, writes (13 November 2010):
saturn2469 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank everyone who responded and let u know I confronted him, he swears he's not interested in men at all n tells me his friends have always been like that. He promises he won't do it again.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (12 November 2010):
He is at least bi-sexual. He may be confused about his sexuality and not ready to admit he's gay or maybe he just enjoys the best of both worlds.
I wouldn't say he was joking/messing around as he seems to be doing it regularly and with different blokes.
And there should be no "feeling like he's cheating" he is clearly cheating. Why is kissing a bloke different to kissing a girl? It's not.
Dump him.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (12 November 2010):
Hi,
Its difficult to say wether he's bi or messing(joking) around with his friends.
I have some female friends who do this to each other (for a bit of fun/attention) when they meet up and they are 100% straight.
Come to think of it, I have a couple of male friends who try to french kiss me when we meet and we are all straight. It could be just a bit of male banter. Maybe he does this to irrate you because he know that you dont like it.
Does he do anything else that makes you think that he's gay/bi?.
Next time that he does this, why dont you (as a joke) join the 2 of them and see what he does!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): It sounds that way! I don't know many guys who would kiss their guy friends. I say, it is cheating. If it bothers you and you told him about it and he continues to do it, maybe it is time to move on. Sorry. :o(
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reader, 333 +, writes (12 November 2010):
He's probably bi-sexual.. although, some gay guys aren't ready to admit that they are gay and date girls as a gay of covering up.
If this really bothers you.. tell him.. if he cares he will stop.. if now, kick him to the curb!
This is not cute.. not if its bothering you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): I can tell you this, a straight guy doesn't kiss his friends unless he lost a bet, and then it's the most humiliating thing in his life.
Heh. Um, yeah, he's either gay or bisexual.
Also, there's no reason for someone to be kissing another person in a passionate way when in a relationship. Regardless of gender or orientation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Yep. He is atleast bi and it is cheating.
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