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writes:Sorry if this is long I just really need help. I already posted a question similar but it hasnt helped. Me and this guy had a thing. Im 15 and hes 18. One day we clicked and he asked for my number. We were flirting and everything. I have liked him for the four years I have known him, and I told him that. He wanted to take me home from school one day and I let him. He kept taking me home after that and we hungout one day too. We connected so much it is unbelieveable, we wouldnt even have to say a word to each other for us to feel something. We cuddled and kissed and it just felt amazing and I forgot everything else in life. I have had a bad couple of years and he made everything better, making me so happy. He knew I was so afraid of losing him and promised it would never happen and he would want me in his life no matter what happened. I fell hard ): He basically was my other half, and he said I was his. We loved each other but werent "in love" yet. On a Saturday we hadnt been texting the whole day like we usually did, I just figured he was busy. Sunday we hadnt texted much either. I texted him at night sunday and said "sorry if i did something wrong" and he replied saying he wasnt ready to be in a relationship, etc. I cried for 3 hours straight alone in my room. its been about 2 almost 3 weeks and im still so sad. I cant let him go he was everything to me. And I know your thinking im so young and shouldnt be concerned at my age but really you wouldnt understand :/ When I text him and bring up "us" he stops texting back. I think it upsets him to talk about it. But he says he just wants to be friends. I think giving him time would help but its so hard not to fight for him when we talk. I honestly just want him and nothing else, without him im so sad and dont have a great outlook on life and it sucks and I hurt. Please someone tell me what to do! tell me what to say to him. tell me something ):
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Darling you need to put some space in between the both of you. I have a feeling he felt that he couldnt commit to you because of your age, he is 18 and even though you both connected you are in two very different stages of your life. I know that heart break isnt nice and it will take time but you will eventually get over it and it will make you stronger for next time.
Are you strong enough to handle just being his friend? I honestly think at the moment it would be best not to contact each other for a while, tell him that you are heart broken and you need some space. Because at the moment you are making it worse for yourself by texting him and then when you bring up anything to do with you and him he avoids it this shows me not that he is upset but that he doesnt want a relationship with you, you need to accept that he just doesnt want to be with you that way, am sure he still cares for you as a friend but you need some distance away from him to sort out your feelings. goodluck.
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