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writes:3 years ago, i committed adultery and fall in love with a prostitute. eventually, she stop being one on her own accord, and i get friends to teach her how to do massage instead. Then we became romantically involved. Strangely, she ask about Christ one day. I shared to her...and she wanted to go to Church...few months later, she wanted to be a Christian and was finally baptized. We stopped our relationship and she moved away...but we still keep in contact on skype.My wife found out during this the cause of it, i was sorry and we manage to patch back the relationship after 2 years of counseling. Then one day... i found out that that girl gone to work as social escort. I was devastated. So much so, I realize she is such a big part in my life. I know I should move on...but the emotion is too strong. I ask God why such thing happen to her...i feel responsible for I know she still love me.I feel like going back and giving up all. I hate myself for being so sinful. I cried every night. I know I should not keep in contact with her...and now I am facing such consequences. The thought of losing her feel that I wasted such opportunity to be with her. I know it is wrong and I hate myself to be like this. But I can't help it. I can't switch off my feeling. What should I do? Help me. Pray for me. Pray for her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Only you can help yourself here, but have you taken a minute to think about your poor wife and how much this is hurting her? She is the victim in all of this not you. you need to make a choice here you either work on your marriage or you can leave and divorce your wife and go in search for this other woman, but you cant and shouldnt have both so think long and hard about what you really want.
You ask god why this happened to her? Erm nothing has happened her she is a grown woman and she makes her own choices this is obviously what she wanted to do so she done it. Nobody is responsible but herself and only herself can get her out of this career.
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