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Does it hurt the second time around?

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Question - (12 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2010):

Sweety Pie agony auntA little, but not as much as the first time. No big deal :)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntLet me be more specific..that applies in a "I just lost my virginity" case. Hahaha.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntIf it's been quite a while then it will hurt a bit the second time around, but not as bad as your first time. (my first time was painful too) The more you have sex the more it will adjust and start to feel good instead of painful.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (13 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntHi it doesnt mean it will hurt again, your virginity has been broken now so it sure wont hurt as much as the first time but it still might be a bit uncomfortable for a few times as your body is adjusting to it. After having sex a couple of times it will be ok. It wont hurt anymore because you have left it for a year or more. Once your virginity has broken it wont be as sore so dont worry if you are thinking of having sex again just make sure that you use plenty of lube and that he goes easy on you, after another two or three times it will be fine.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

Well me and my girlfriend have been dating for two years and having sex for 1 and a half and if we go two weeks or longer without having sex she always complains when we do because it hurts her because her hole got smaller over those two weeks. so yes i do think it hurts.

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