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writes:Me and this guy have hung out a few times. We made out after a night a drinking. ( we have hung out after ) I like him, I feel he likes me too. I made a comment how I would never go for a guy I work with, but would break the rule for him. Should I just ask him out? Do guys like it when girls ask them out?
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reader, poil +, writes (12 November 2010):
poil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was not thinking date so much as lets meet for beers and watch a football game. The night we hooked up he invited himself over and we were watching tv and haning out then it happand. . . maybe I should wait. I just dont want to miss out cause I am shy
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Would this be for a first date?
Normally I would say yes, a girl can take the initiative to get things going BUT you two already made out? Was that a date (that he setup)?
If not, then I think he should ask first. Yes, this is sexist but lets face it making out is NO longer a subtle hint that he might have missed.
Yes, you can ask him out and some guys like that, but consider why he hasn't asked yet.
IF however this is a 2nd or later date, then sure, the girl taking the initiative is welcome. Just not the first date after such an obvious clue that you are interested in him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): HELL YES! It shows confidence and, as previously stated, also helps the majority of us who can't read signs or are too shy or because we think you're WAY too good for us!!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Well, yeah! They constantly gripe they have to do all the work..why not give them a break from time to time and ask out the guy? Shows you're a fearless, confident, forward female and men find that very sexy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 November 2010):
Sometimes it can be a good thing. Men can be notoriously bad at seeing hints and signs, so when a woman asks us out, it's all made clear and we can get on with dating you! If you think he likes you, take a chance and talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Well, I married the first one who asked me out.
Stayed married as well.
Does that help?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Personally I would not mind if a girl asked me out. In the end it does not matter who asks who if both people are going to end up in the same place anyway.
Go ahead and ask him if you feel that he reciprocates those feelings.
I hope that helps.
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