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*pendy
writes:What should I do?? please help?my boyfriends sister wanted him to buy her make up..so he asked me to come to the shop with him..i went.he was waiting for his sister to send him the money so he could pay for the make up..it was taken quite long so i told my boyfriend i would pay for the make up..then his sister can pay me later..is been 3weeks now and my boyfriend hasn't said anything about my money.should i ask him or let it go.. i kinda need the money seen as am a student.is 26pounds..if so how should i ask him about it?please help??thamks!! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Is it possible his forgotten about it?
I tend to find myself lending my bf cash here and there and it becomes frustrating a week or more later there is no mention of him paying me back. Usually because he has totally forgotten!
Casually mention it to him, say you have a bill to pay etc and need the money to pay it and ask him to ask his sister.
Try not to make a big deal of it but be firm that you need your money back!
Hope it works!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 I don't understand why she couldn't go to the shop and buy her own makeup? That's like sending him to buy tampons.
Well your impatience cost you, since he has said nothing about the $ then I would ask him about it. Also, do note that you shouldn't lend out money you don't really have, or to someone who isn't responsible enough to pay you back. You just might be out 26 pounds.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Just ask him if it is possible for his sister to pay you back anytime soon, you do not mean to pester him about it but you are in need of the money. It is simple, he should not get upset about it.
I hope that helps.
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