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reader, aharah  +, writes (7 April 2013):
 My boyfriend is also a pimp.. i tried trusting him. but my jealousy always eat me.. i really tried hard to trust but as long as he is a pimp, it would take thousands of years for me to believe everything about him. and for the record, my boyfriend is a korean..and is a pimp here in Philippines. im also scared and confused of what to do. as of now i know that he is not really the one for me, so what i did is that im taking advantage of him...the luxurious life of living with a pimp bf...and i just enjoy what i have right now..though im trying hard to just dont mind my trust issues with him.yet someday, i will leave him. it will surely hurt me but i think everything really hurts no matter what type of situation it is...but it depends on how we dance with the pain. i think, that is all that matters...
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reader, baby2baby  +, writes (24 March 2011):
When I met my boyfriend he was a pimp.. I told him I didn't want to be involved in that lifestyle so he quit pimping. We've been together going on 3years and he has not been up to anything funny or sneaky that whole time. We have a deep connection and I trust him to the fullest. Recently we have been going through financial difficulties. So w had a talk and we both decided that he should get back at it.. we are trying to build up security as fast as possible so we can b stable and take the next step into marrage. This is a plan we both agree on. He is now pimping again and I trust him and I am secure and confident in the role I play as his wife. I have a 9-5 job while he is making fast money the way he knows how. I have a home with him and a future with him those girls are just his employees for the time being. This is not something that is going to be going on forever. But for now this is what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): tnx everyone 4 ur advice i think ur right and ill break up with him tnx!
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 Run! I agree with the others. This guy (if a real pimp) is only going to ruin your life and soul. If he's a player, he'll break your heart as he sleeps around with others. You deserve better. Leave the player to his pathetic games.
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reader, alex74 +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Seems like he is actively recruiting & and looking for new "ho's". Run for your life.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (12 November 2010):
Stay well clear. End of.
If he's a prostitute pimp, he will probably brainwash or manipulate you you will eventually end up being pimped out.
If he's a player pimp, he'll be sleeping with you and countless other girls at the same time.
Either way, you'll lose out and get hurt.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (12 November 2010):
 There is an educational documentary you should watch. It's called "The Mack."
Be careful if he wants to take you on a date to the planetarium. That's how Goldie got mind control over his bitches.
If this guy is actually a working pimp, he'll date you, get you devoted to him, and turn you out.
If you mean Pimp as in "player" then you'll just end up getting cheated on and used.
Either way it's probably best if you walk away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): If you don't want to get your heart broken then stay away. Do it now before you develop any feelings for this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Do you mean like a real pimp? Or someone who likes to get with a lot of girls?
Either way its dumb to get involved
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Stay away from this freak!
Usually, men like him.. have bad intentions and only want to hook-up. They don't want a relationship.
Don't give in..
Best of luck .
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 November 2010):
 As in an actual working pimp who has a prostitution ring? I sure hope not!
Regardless, he's a real ladies man..makes his rounds at the gym flirting, catching women's eye, and he's even admitted it himself...He's looking for some fun not a relationship. If you previously got burnt then it wouldn't be very wise of you to pursue him.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (12 November 2010):
 he wants to make you work for him.
stay away from him
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