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writes: I absolutly 100% until infinity and beyond love my best friend she means the world to me and I want to tell her but dont want to mess up our relationship every time I see a guy flirting with her I want to punch him right in the face! I try to talk to her but either her friends are there or I cant muster up the courage. Every night I well up with tears and get so frustrated at myself I cant tell if Im more mad or filled with sadness at myself. Should I tell her Im in love with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Tell her, dude. When I was your age and felt that way about a girl, I was always hesitant. I never said anything.
It really is a mistake to hold back. You only live once, and she may very well feel similar.
DO IT!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 3rd vote just do it!
If you tell her and in case she doesn't harbor the same feelings, your friendship might get awkward for a bit but will eventually bounce back... You don't really have anything to lose, do it before you do give someone a black eye.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Yes. Do it!
But.. I know it's hard to tell people how you feel, so I have some suggestions for you. If you want to tell her straight, then arrange something. Ask her to meet you at a certain place at a certain time when you know it'll just be the two of you. It'll give you a chance to build up to it so hopefully your courage will be there.
Another idea is to tell her via a letter or some written form. It may sound silly but it's so much easier. Once she's gets it, there's no going back and you'll be able to say exactly what you want with no interruptions. Yes it could be considered as soppy, but for girls, it's sweet and it works :)
Good luck
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 YES! You should absolutely tell her! It does not need to ruin your friendship, if she does not feel the same way you can simply carry on as if you never told her. Just be honest with her!
I hope that helps.
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