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writes:I'm 18 and a virgin by choice. i've decided that i was going to wait to have sex. now though i want to do it but i just can't bring myself to do it. i want to but something in me makes me stop. what should i do? does this mean i'm not ready? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelbaby92 +, writes (13 November 2010):
angelbaby92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour answers hve been very helpful. i think i'm gonna wait until i don't have any of those feelings and i'm completely ready to give myself to him
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reader, lovebug93 +, writes (13 November 2010):
honestly the only one who knows your body the most is yourself and if you keep having this feeling reoccurring then im sure its telling you that your not ready
you should also make sure your with the person you want to be with. it will be very emotional for you to have it done then regret it because of who you are with. take time to think before you want to do it. no one can make you choose what you want to do, you just have to listen to your heart. hope everything goes well.
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reader, brianna6037  +, writes (12 November 2010):
well I think that the strange feeling that you are having is your bodys way of telling you that your not ready.
Having sex is a very mature activity, and should not be enjoyed until you and your partner are completely confident with each other.
If you want to wait and have sex than that is totally up to you. Just wait until you are fully ready and comfortable with yourself or it can feel tense and awkward.
I hope that helps!, and best of luck :)
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reader, sarah baghdad +, writes (12 November 2010):
maybe because u haven't met the interesting guy yet~
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