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Should I give him some more time or just give up completely?

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Question - (6 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hey guys help please..my guy friend told me he wanted to be more than friends with me but he was wary as well having been in a relationship in the past that hurt him..he told me he felt comfortable around me i was really pleased as i also wanted more but didn't want to pressure him! that was 4 weeks ago..i got a bit irritable with him 2 weeks ago asking if he was serious about what he said..he said he had other things going on this made me feel as if he was stalling and wasn't serious..i apologised later that day for my behaviour got no response tho but got a 'merry xmas' on christmas day....now nothing, im thinking do i give him some more time or just give up..im not going to contact him but its driving me crazy not knowing! opinions greatly appreciated..thanx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

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p.s folks i never saw him at xmas cos he lives in london and im in glasgow

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

I agree with Gina. To not see you over the Xmas period was a bad sign. I think you should wait until he says anything, but certainly dont' wait around

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