A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a friend and we both like each other. The thing is, we're not dating and probably won't. We've kissed and stuff before, so it's almost like we are dating, but we don't have the title "boyfriend and girlfriend". Could staying single but still messing around with each other become a problem? Should I just rule it out or would dating be better? Any advice would be helpful. Thank you! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): If you already think you wont date, i would probably just say to him that...look we've kissed and we like eachother but you should really feel a spark if he still hasnt asked you out then he is probably wanting to me single also. It could create a lot of problems if he starts kissing someone else and you hear about it or if you decide to like someone else and he hears about it. Its just not a good situation to be in as you'll be naturally jealous or feel like your just another girl he likes. So i would ask him why are you continuing to do these things with eachother but not date and see what he says. Dont date him just out of pity though, you should really feel a spark and if you dont just rule it out all together and find someone else theres plenty of people out there.
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