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writes:I have no idea what to do this guy i ve been seeing him for 8 months ago but i dont know what to think about him he sometimes is nice sometimes very cold and distante and he says he cares about me,the thing is that he is planning to make vactions for 10 days and since he knows me he started the interest to visit my ocuntry right now I cant travel to my country (venezuela)and surprisingly he suddenly told me that he wants to go to venezuela he met my sister and my mom already here USA and i met his parents too...we are not exlusively but he hasnt date nobody else and me either...my question is why he wants to go to my country knowing that i cant go over there , he wants to go now and this makes me feel upset! what do you think??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (7 January 2010):
 Does he know this is upsetting you? If not, maybe you need to tell him.
It's hard to say why he is planning this trip without you. Maybe he just wants to get an idea of where you come from. But I would think it would be more enjoyable for him if you could be there to show him around!
I would talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. I can imagine how upsetting this is to you!
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