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What can we do instead of oral?

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Question - (6 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm currently in a relationship but neither of us are into oral. so i was wondering what other stuff could we do instead?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

you could touch each other/caress

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

At 13-15, just kiss and hug and get to know each other more. There's plenty of time for everything else when you're both legal!

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A female reader, pancakes rule Ireland +, writes (6 January 2010):

pancakes rule agony auntFirst of all, if you are really only 13-15, I wouldn't advise you to get too into sex stuff yet because it is a much bigger deal then you might think. But I know that I can't actually stop you so you might as well make it as good as possible.

fingering, hand job, go to a shop and get some toys.

What you really want to do is just get aroused, so you can do stuff like role playing, or dressing sexy. Some people like watching the other person masturbating, just try some different things to see what the other person likes.

I found that guys like it if a girl acts like she's really horny and wants them, just put on a bit of a show for him to try to get him aroused and then that should lead to satisfaction.

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A male reader, LessonsLearned United States +, writes (6 January 2010):

Toys. You can order a vibrator like the pocket rocket or dolphin. But it depends on if you prefer clit stimulation over penetration to get off. Mutual masturbation can be fun with lube.

Learning to full body massage is a great way to prepare for sex. Plus, its a fun way to explore each others bodies in an erotic and stimulating way. Try getting naked and getting oily and rub your boobs all over his body. Its such a turn on!

Why dont you like to perform oral sex? Its pretty much the norm these days.

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