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writes:Im going to my boyfriends tomorrow and sex is on the brain lol i was just wondering if anyone had any tips for me on how to be dominant of him i dont know how to have sex on top of him.. how do i move? do i sit up or lie on him? he likes it when i take control.. Reply to this Question
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (6 January 2010):
 Neither of them are wrong. Try out both to see what feels best for both of you.Personally, I usually lean forward a little as it hurts for me to sit up.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 Sitting up will give you better range of movement and depth of penetration than lying down, ... but lying down is just gunna feel better for some people.
Mix it up a bit and test it all out to see what works for you both. Maybe you could start off inserting his penis whilst lying down and then move up to your knees if it is not working out for ya's. Once there, it is easy to alter your angle slightly and you will find one that is more pleasurable to you than others.
What works best with one guy, may not be what works best for you with another guy too, (eg: I find the width of a guys hips can affect optimal positioning) so U cant really get a text-book best way to go about it.
Leaning back very slightly (assuming you are facing him) will give the best contact with your G spot and does the trick for me, ..but other women either cant get off from stimulation there, or simply just don't like that sensation. Your gunna have to test it all out for yourself to know how your body responds.
You may want to try different movement too. You dont have to just bounce up and down like your on a pogo stick or something either, ...a rolling/rocking motion with your hips might feel better for you. If you are feeling a little unsure about what you are doing (or just wanna coz you like being held on to) you could place his hands on your hips and chances are pretty good he will use them to guide you in a motion, pace, etc.
Just try different things and you'll know when it is all good for you, ..but don;t be shy about asking your guy how different things feel to him too. Communicating is the only way you can learn what each other likes.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 January 2010):
Either do what you want (what are you most comfortable with?). Or even better (which he really might like), order him to do things to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): When you're on top, you do what you want to do. What feels best to you?
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