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*ountainman
writes:So, the girlfriend and I used to text all the time until I got upset with her lying to me and we had a big argument. When I talked to her last night, everything was fine.I have been trying to make myself "less available" hoping that she would pursue more. I haven't talked to her since 11pm last night(its almost 4pm here now). Should I be concerned that she hasn't texted or called me yet today?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Well you apparently haven't texted her either, so she might be worrying just like you are.
This text stand-off isn't good for either of you. Break it and text her.
And making yourself "less available" can become emotionally abusive. Don't have her always stressing about whether you're angry or avoiding her.
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