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Is it normal for a married man to masturbate to his wife's friends?

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Question - (6 January 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2017)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want to know if it is normal for a married man to masturbate to his wifes friends. My husband is wonderful but we are having an issue because a few months ago after we had our second baby we were changing memory cards in our phones when i found a picture of one of my friends from work. he actually took a picture of a picture of her off another friends desk. I feel very betrayed. I do not have a problem with masturbation to porn or anything like that. I do however have a problem with him feeling that was about my close friends and he has felt that way toward a few of them. I just want to know if this is a normal thing men do or if he and I should talk to someone to improve whatever I am missing that my friends have to make him happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2017):

Im a guy and I do this too however I know it's wrong. It's a big turn on when you do it to someone you know

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (7 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntCertainly it is wrong, to have the pic of your friend, without your knowledge, but it is advisable to discuss with husband quite friendly, and let him know about the immoral tone, and how it is hurting....may be he has no ideas that his work is hurting.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010):

i am the one that wrote the question. It was a picture of her on someone elses desk from a night out. he snapped a pic of it on his cell phone. yes i know he did it because he admitted that is why he had this on his cell phone.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010):

Where do you connect a picture OF A DESK PICTURE of a friend of yours on your husband's cell phone to masturbation? I think your assumptions are off the charts.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (7 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntDid I miss something? Do you know for a fact that he actually was masturbating over a pic of your friend?

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A female reader, msadamas United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

Believe it or not, this behavior is normal for men. They like to fantasize about women they know...

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