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*lexES
writes:Hello, well i was wondering a lot about love. Ive never had a girlfriend and the last girl i liked a lot, well she told me yes about going out, but when i talked to her by phone, she told that she had boyfriend, she was very beautiful(close to the dream perfect 10) and her personality to, she was beautiful inside and out, but well i have to keep going and forget it, actually she was the first girl i ask out. I'm really not sure if love exist because Ive never had a girlfriend but i see that most relationships kinda suck, so maybe i should forget about looking for a girl i like inside and out and think in "only sex" that make me kinda sad but i want to know if is just a fantasy.
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reader, AlexES +, writes (6 January 2010):
AlexES is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers guys =)
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reader, alejandro  +, writes (6 January 2010):
Love does exist and when you find it, it will slap you in the face leaving you with a huge smile. I don't think any one at your age is actually in love, they may be in love with the thought of being in love but that is it. I thought I was "in love" several times, but then I realized it was lust, when I met my current gf I knew it was the real thing because sex was not the whole focus of our relationship. True love will find you , just give it time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): No, love isn't just fantasy however it can be complicated and many people fall in and out of it. Don't think in 'only sex' as you could miss out on a chance to fall in love.
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