Niko or Hector... Which one do I choose?!

A female age 30-35, *uite.the.Odd.Ball writes:

Ok so theres this guy "Nick" and well we've been going out for a while,after we heard the news that i was moving out of state he suprised me with a comitment ring. So i moved out of state with my family out here and i started talking to this guy, "Hector" i used to talk to when i came to visit. Now me and "Niko" do love each other and i love him very much. But me and "Hector" have been talking alot and alot of my feelings toward him are coming back. I been in a long distant relationship befor an it ended with me heartbroken and im scared it the past will repete itself. I've been doubting our relationship will make it considering we are long distant but i no for a fact it will survive if we werent. So i told him lets take a brake and see if we miss each other enough to make it work. When "Hector" found out we started flirting, i still hadnt lost complete feelimgs for "Niko". One night we were alone and one thing lead to another and i i thought i was pregnat because the condom broke. Well of course i had to tell hom and i did he said that he would stay with me no matter what. So we are still broken up and i dont no wich to choose "Niko" or "Hector"?? But now that "Hector's" ex moved back in town he's been focusing on her more than me and i feel left out like he just used me. Then theres other times were we have fun and play around and just be us. "Niko" has been waitin this whole time for me and i dont know wich to choose?? Please write to me asap with advise, thank you..

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