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writes:There is this guy that I work with. We had been flirting like crazy and texting too. I found out he had a girlfriend so I backed down. We both agreed we would just be friends. Then about a week ago he invited me out for coffee. The night seemed to go buy innocently but took an unxepected turn and we wound up sleeping together. We both then decided that what happened, happened and that we would just forget about it and move on doing what we were doing before. But it's been like a week now and he doesn't text or call, and at work he seems different. He doesn't ignore me but you can tell that there is some kind of tension there. I don't want to risk a friendship but I do want to confront him because I know that old story that once the guy gets some he doesn't call no more. So with that said I want to make it clear to him that he can't just screw me and not call, but I also want him to know that I still want to be friends.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 January 2010):
You're going to wind up really hurt very shortly if you confront him. His not calling shows that he knows he's made a big mistake and doesn't want it to go any further. Take the hint and back off. I know you don't want to be just screwed and then left, but the fact is he had a girlfriend and this was how he was going to leave it once he realized he'd made a mistake. I'm sure you're feeling hurt and rejected, but you really need to move on. You'll get hurt if you try anything else.
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