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writes:Ok, first off I'm only 15 so this decision isn't totally crucial. There are these two girls, both go to my school. Lets call one girl A the other B. I've known girl A for around 6 years, I like her but she's not really in my friendship group and so don't have that much in common. She has told me she likes me and a lot of my friends are pressuring me to ask her out but I'm still unsure. Then there's girl B. Only started talking to her the start of the school year but I like her a lot and we have quite a bit in common; the thing is I don't think I'm her type, she's more into older guys and the type of guy that goes out to parties a lot and stuff (not that I'm a loser, just not especially outgoing). So if I had to get down to it, I would probably have to say I like girl B more and have more fun with her, but girl A is a safe option that I would definitely enjoy.P.S No one knows that I have any feelings more than friendly ones towards girl B, including her. She actually mentioned me going out with girl A so she has no idea :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Benny1994 +, writes (11 February 2010):
Benny1994 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I left it too late for girl A, she is now seeing one of my best friends, although she has told me and other people that she doesn't feel comfortable with him and it may end soon. I have also received information, from a fairly reliable source, that girl B likes me. This has definitely surprised me, I always thought I just had a crush and it would pass because I never thought she'd like me and now, well, I'm not so sure :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): I would say girl A is definitely a better pick. You may like girl B better, but being that I am a girl... i would never tell a guy I like that he should go out with another girl... obviously she seems to have no interest in you... and as a matter of fact... your not the party type and your not an older guy.... yeah she might be more fun.. but wouldnt you worry if she would leave you for an older guy? if she senses your not into the whole party scene she may think your boring and move on and find what she seems to be more interesting... Id say give girl A a chance.... maybe you dont have as much things in common as you want.. but opposites do attract and she could introduce you to things you might gain interest in as well as you could introduce her to things she could gain interest in... i understand your situation isnt crucial to your life.... but these are things we all go through to grow up... get into the habit of obtaining healthy relationships while your young and your relationships in the future will be alot better..... hope ive helped and update whenever you have decided
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