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*ritishGirls4life
writes:I dated my ex boyfriend for a year now. I broke up with him because he didn't treat me like i wanted to be treated. We broke up once before a long time ago then we got back together again.My ex asked for his stuff back so i waited for him at my locker on Monday (we are in high school by the way i am 16 he is 17) He never showed up. Then i asked him to come again on Tuesday and he finally showed up so I gave him back his stuff and he gave me back my stuff.Then his friend said as i was walking to the car where my mom picked me up. She yelled out (name of boyfriend) NEED HIS NECKLACE BACK! she like yelled it out in a mean way. I saw her by the corner of my eye i just was too scared to look at her. now i am kind of scared to go to school. I hate it when people do this. I can't believe my ex boyfriend is like making his friends like yell at me and stuff.I didn't want this to happen. It just didn't feel right when i was with him i can't live with him forever.How do i get rid of all my emotions and start concentrating on school when i am so scared people will come and yell at me again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): Ok, this is going to sound crazy, but it worked for me... I was in a similar situation, someone I trust told me that it was impossible to maintaining these emotions if I prayed for the person each night for a month. I'm not a church go-er (neither was he), and while I was skeptical, I decided that no one would know about it and I was miserable and anything that worked was OK with me. So for about 5 nights I prayed on my knees like a little kid and before the end of the week I was no longer harboring any ill feelings... I think that since I was wishing (via prayer) that this person would heal from their pain, and wishing them well that somehow I couldn't hold on to all the carp that I was...Now, if your not into God, don't let that screw up your chance for healing... pray to some power beyond yourself... there has to be something... could be a sunset, a flower... a baby... make up the perfect idea of what your ideal God is... and it's yours... Try it, don't tell anyone, if it works GREAT, if not, no one needs to know! It worked for me, I was a skeptic, now I'm over it...
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