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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend and I really love each other, however there is a slight issue. She is close friends to another guy and sees him as her good friend but then they used to like eachother in the past, although it was at different time. They would phone eachother late at night and into the early hrs of the morning and it really makes me feel insecure and weird, especially since she has told him things about our relationship as well. Also there is another guy hu sits with her at tutor and it turns out that he is in love with her and often asks to hang out with her although she has turned him down for me... but I still feel uncomfortable with him being near her. Its not because I don’t trust her, I really do, however I don’t trust those 2 guys...she's a tomboy and has many guy friends...she texts me on time everyday even if i dont text her all day...she sends kisses and loves in texts....she said she loves me and will always be mine inspite of her talking to guys and that i shouldnt feel insecure about losing her...i felt it weird and i was speechless and didnt react to the statement....she confessed to me that she made out with a guy last year and she was terribly guilty about it....but our relationship has faded and she's not that crazy about me like she was before perhaps because of long distance relationship and accusations, disbelief, verbal n emotional abuse, inconsistent behaviour with her due to insecurity etc..like for example she used to immediately reply to my texts after i sent them...but now she sends them only when she gets time and stuff like that we have grown a bit tired of it ...how to regenerate that spark and overcome issues and make it exciting? she's gonna visit here in a month...
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reader, Jager  +, writes (7 January 2010):
my my we are tense. Sounds like you should give this one up plenty more fish in the sea. However if thats not an option you could tell her what you want how things have to change and then give her a reason to change. But you need to know what you want before that
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