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writes:Ok, to keep a long story short, i’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social life from what i see on facebook - clubbing, gatherings etc. A lot of girls I know think he’s cute (i dont think so though). Quite some time ago - 6 mths ago actually, we were placed in some school events together and from what i observed, he would look at me a lot from afar, but when we do have eye contact, he looks away quickly. he would walk past me and then ignore me but look at me from afar. and he would help me with chairs and things but not talk to me. and if i do talk to him - he’s pretty subdued, just answers and doesnt say much.i added him on facebook and neither of us did anything. but after that when i did see him in school, which isnt often, he would look at me and then when hes near, ignore me. or like he would stare and observe but what is strange is, i ALWAYS smile at him, however he doesnt return it at all. i dont believe he’s shy..he's not known to be charming or friendly either =/ what is it then?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni always like a male's pov on this one. thanks!
and pancakes rule: i like your answer:) and you paid attention to the things ive mentioned.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 January 2010):
He might be shy. Even the most confident guys can be shy when they fancy a girl. I'd suggest you get talking to him. You don't know where it might lead.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 January 2010):
It sounds like he's a bit indifferent to you to be honest.
Stop worrying about him and find a guy you DO like.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 he might fancy you but may not want you to know, hence ignoring you.
You can't judge things like a social life form facebook only, a lot of people who use social networking sites make their page seem like they are more popular then they actually are.
If he's not charming or friendly then why would you expect him to act in any other way. If you have a mutual friend, then talk to them about it.
It's not always possible to know what is going on in the mind of a person, especially here on dearcupid where we don't even know this guy.
good luck
xx
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