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Does anyone have experience with sensual massages?

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Question - (6 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age , *xeterjohn writes:

This posting might seem strange to younger readers but I assure you that it is genuine.

I am 64, was married for a long time, divorced 21 years ago and have had several (non live-in) relationships up to about 15 months ago. For more than a year, no woman has touched me in a sensual way and I am now missing it so much that I feel as if I am suffering (can't sleep, etc.).

I am not someone to go to a pub to pick up a woman on her own and I am too worried about the health aspects to go to a prostitute. I have seen something called sensual massage advertised. Does anyone have any experience of this? Does it leave you feeling that you have been truly touched sensually or is it no different from doing it yourself (which is not very sensual)?

Thanks for any comments, especially those which are a bit more thoughtful than 'get a girlfriend' which I would do if there were anyone interested.

Exeterjohn

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A male reader, Exeterjohn United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

Exeterjohn is verified as being by the original poster of the question

That's great, thank you. I had never heard of connectingsingles.com but I have looked at the site and joined.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

Just to let you know, there certainly are women who would be interested in dating you. Try dating online sites such as www.connectingsingles.com and cupidmedia.com among thousands of others. I am 35 and am currently dating a 62 year old I met on line. Plenty of pretty lonely widows in their 50's on line who think no man is interested!!

Oh, and Satindesire is spot on. Sensual massage is just finding a less criminal word to advertise prostitute services. Maybe you could try put up an ad instead, stating that you are "looking for a certified genuine sensual masseuse and please no sex required and no prostitutes please. Proof of qualifications essential".

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A male reader, Exeterjohn United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

Exeterjohn is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for this reply. I appreciate it.

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