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26-29,
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writes:Well, ever since September I met my assistant principal, and ever since then ive been becoming more and more attached to her. My friends think im obsessed with her and a suck up. But the truth is i think i have a crush on her. I dont know though, but whenever i walk by her office i look in to see if shes there. and if she is ill pace back and fourth waiting for her to come outside to talk to her. And when I walk to homeroom she sometimes stands by my locker and i always find myself talking to her. Even at lunch, i never miss a day there because she always stops by in my cafeteria and i always make an excuse to my friends to go talk to her. Two days ago was her birthday and i wrote her a card saying how much i love her and shes the best principal ever.its very weird because i dont know if i have a crush on her or if i just look up to her as a mother figure.... i make her pictures that she hangs up and i draw on her board and she gives me food sometimes. Im getting too close with her,sometimes i feel like she is getting freaked out by me constantly talking to her and saying hi to her whenever i see her. I dont know what to do with these feelings because i dont know if im attracted to her. please help!
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (31 December 2010):
I was really sad to read about the (Jan 7) post, where the neighbor moved away andyou lost touch. It sounds like she fessed up to her husband about kissing you, and that prompted him to move them away. Something like this may have also happened to her before, with another woman/teenage girl, seeing as he was so quick to jump ship rather than deal with the situation. Have you found her on facebook or have you tried? I've found that if you live far away from someone and make contact with them again, after having feelings for them, while you may have some interest, it's not overpowering, because you're relying more on the good memory of the person rather than a here and now infatuation. That way you can just be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): I'm in agreement with the above post. If you do feel any kind of spark between the two of you, don't act on it. Don't initiate anything with her, don't let her initiate anything with you. That is, unless you WANT us to read about her in the newspaper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): Well if you were you would know. And the attraction might come later on. When I was 14 (I am female), I used to babysit this little girl whenever her father got back from his 6 months business trips. The mother and father would go out to spend time together but when he was gone she would wait for me when I was walking home. I would talk to her on my way home. We would spend hours talking to each other and whenever she went away to visit her husband she never came back without bringing me many gifts from all over the world. I felt so close to her and I shared everything with her. She was ten years older than me...
By the time I was 17 I had realized that I was falling for her and that she might have begun to fall for me. One night she came back drunk from a night out with her husband and insisted she walk me home. She kissed me all over my face and right before she was going to kiss my mouth I pulled away. She kept saying she loved me but I told her she was just drunk.
Her husband also did not seem too happy with me from that point on. He changed his job and his wife tried to get me to move with his family. But I needed to go to college and we lost touch.
Your close relationship could at this point is nothing romantic and nothing to worry about. It is okay to be close with an older woman its okay to even fall for her but the relationship until you are 18 cannot turn into anything more. Embrace it! My relationship with my neighbor made me very happy and I look upon with a smile. Just don't cross any lines and tell your friends they are being too dramatic.
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