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writes:My girlfriend of 2.5 yrs split for 6 months last year. During that period she had a failed relationship with a new guy and got sacked from her jobThen she contacted me again and said she wanted us to work. She moved overseas to be with me again.We recently split with mutual agreement, due to arguing a lotAs we both sobbed after splitting I said talk to me. She replied ' i can't believe i'm single again, I can't believe i have to start over again, nothing ever works for me'.It was all 'I' this and 'I' thatNo mention of me!! I was expecting her to say how sad she was that we had broken up, how she would miss me etc but not a mention about me,us, or that our relationship was now over. On the otherhand I was sad because i had lost her but it seems she wasn't crying over us\me after all?Am i imagining things? Is what she said normal or uncaring? I'm so thrown by these words.Was she in this relationship for me or for her own reasons? any thoughts anyone? thanks
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reader, EPIC +, writes (6 January 2010):
A) Dont listen to brainscanhug do sex its good I've heard B) You're not crazy she was clearly thinking only of her self and not of the loss of a good man and a happy relationship ... Do your best to get over her (you will .. in time) and eventually move on Good Luck Do Sex !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): Western philosophy is very egocentric. It's all about what's right and never about what's true North.
She needs to learn how to think about other people as well. Maybe that would even fix the arguing problem.
Do not have sex with her unless you two are married before God. That is all.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 January 2010):
I think she lost her job and her boyfriend and needed comfort, so came to you. At least your without her now. She seems a little preoccupied with her own feelings than those she uses. Move on.
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