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writes:I have always looked up to my older brother but over the years i have had some suspicions as to his sexual orientation.He is a small guy, a lot smaller than me. He is about 5'5", and he is really metro. He has many pairs of shoes and belts and accessories etc. that is my first suspicion.He never brings any girls home. We are not very close, that we talk about our relationships etc. He has me on his facebook as limited, and I saw that he is a fan of david beckham, and zac effron..which makes me kind of angryI went to his room today, and on his PSP i saw there was porn. It was lesbian porn so i was actually pretty revealed, but I did some snooping (i know i shouldn't have), but in his closet I found a backpack containing, woman's high heel shoes, a flesh light (sex toy for males), long rubber gloves, ky lube, and butt plug in the package. He talks like he is straight, and he has normal interests like playing video games, and sports.But i have noticed that he does a lot of feminine things too like crosses his legs like a woman when he sits (but so do some straight guys), he wears lulu lemon pants (pants that i only see girls wear), and he has skin care products that are girly.Our relationship has deteriorated over the years and we are not as close as we once were. He gets really irratated and mad at me, and always yells at me to get out of his room. He is being very secretive and always closing his bedroom door. Not really sure what to do about this.any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 It is not secretive to expect some privacy and not have a meddling snooping little sister poking around his room and in to business that is not for her to concern herself with!
It is not your place to judge him for his sexual orientation but from the wording of your post it sounds like you are doing exactly that. I believe it is called homophobia and is a rather unappealling mindset for anyone to possess. Continue to judge him and disrespect his privacy and you can expect your relationship to deteriorate even further.
I suggest you do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING except mind your own business and stay out of his bedroom, cupboards, PSP, etc, etc, etc.
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