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writes:ok so some how everyday theres always some how i get upset or pissy about what my girlfriend says or does its like always something about a guy just little things to but it still pisses me off ever sense she cheated on me but not a big deal just 2 kisses as i know but its like my trust issues effect how i feel about what she says or does. if theres guys in the picture i get upset automaticly no matter what it is and im always worried and upset and ive never acted like this with other girls and im so sick and tierd of this feeling i dont wanna have this feeling any longer i wanna know shes not doing anything wrong and stop getting upset like she says " hes like my bestfriend nothing more" or "i wanna go to the party but theres going to be mad guys and alcohol" "i wanna go to the dance with him just to see my friends not to hang with him" idk those r just the few things that piss me off am i over reacting? and i to over protective? or is it her? she says she loves me so much and wants to be with me forever and will never leave me or hurt me and mess what we have up and i believe that just she makes everything seem worst than it is or maybe it is as bad as it sounds i dont know help me out
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): It's like you are overprotected of her because you don't want her with nobody else like she's yours and only yours. Kind of sounds selfish but i think you're not being selfish. Maybe the fact that she cheated really got to you even if it was only two kisses. I mean, if she loves you that much why did it even lead to kisses?So another possiblity of it is that you're insecure that she might do it again. And that you're protecting yourself from getting hurt again. Those little things when she's out with another guy gets too you because you don't have really much trust for her. So you should sit down with her and pour your feelings out to make her understand (: Hope this works out for you.!
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reader, love6269 +, writes (6 January 2010):
I really don't blame you, at all. I'd probably be protective too. Once someone breaks that trust you have, it takes a long time to gain it back. When my boyfriend cheated on me, I couldn't trust him again. And even though he told me he loved me, and wanted to be with me, and no one else.. There was something that was always in the back of my mind. Whenever he'd mention something about another girl because somewhere he was going, i'd automatically turn into a bitch and freak out and tell him he couldn't go places. But if you don't let your girlfriend do what she wants to do, how can you know if you can trust her again? You have to let her prove to you somehow she isn't gonna do it again. If she does, she obviously doesn't "love you, and wanna be with you" that bad. The way I think about it, is if someone loves you, they shouldn't cheat on you in the first place. People shouldn't say they love someone if they don't mean it and don't know what they actually want. Hope I helped out (: Good luck.
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reader, alejandro +, writes (6 January 2010):
Ok , first off sorry that she cheated, but you have given her a second chance and second chances need a fresh start. You need to get over these feeligns or you will kill your relationship. Girls can have guy friend that are just that. I am a guy and my best friend is a girl that I love to death but only as a friend. You need to sit your gf down and talk to her and explain why you have these feelings, maybe even a break from your relationship may help.
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