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*ngelsrock18
writes:So i was dating this one guy' for 9 month's and we were like diggin' eachother alot.. but i f**ked up alot and then i broke up with him and he told me he would always love me no matter what he just doesn't know if he could take the shit anymore .. so we didn't get back together and it's been like 4 months.. and he's dating one of my good friends and me and him "hate" each other because im a b*tch i guess and she and i still talk.. but like after him i had a thing with a couple people and i dated one guy then my other ex came back and i was trying to get over him with the guy i dated 9 months and it pretty much worked until he started talking to me again and then he moved and it was horrible i didn't know what to do anymore because we have had a thing on and off for about 2 years.. and then we broke up and then i went back to the guy i dated before him then dumped him and had a thing with other people then dated another guy and then we broke up like a week ago and then i have a thing with 2 more people.. is there a reason why im going guy to guy since i was like heartbroken? or whats up with me ?
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (1 May 2010):
Hello dear, it's completely understandable to avoid love and commitment after being hurt and heartbroken, i believe ur doing this to spare yourself from pain and find a quick solution with another guy. But this is not the solution sweety, ur running away from a fear and jumping into a life stream that's gonna confuse u even more than before, i advice u to think about what u really want and need in ur personal life and try to find the right guy who can fill the gap ur having,and trust me you'll end up with a guy who loves respects and truely care about u .
Ps: I would avoid exs if i were you, cause if it was to work between u and ur ex it would have worked long time ago, avoid on and off relations , it won't do u any good, try to face ur loneliness with things u really like, hobbies , work or education cause it will complete ur personality and boost ur self confidence and the right guy will come to u faster than u can imagine.
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