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male
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30-35,
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writes:hello. im in quite a dilemma here. I love this girl that has a boyfriend. she's my coworker and is the same age. she has had a boyfriend since highschool. we are really good friends and she is really close with me. a couple weeks ago she was texting me and asking me to distract her cuz she was scared due to the storm. then the next week she was crying on my shoulder so to say. about how she was having boyfriend trouble. he didn't pay attention to her. I wanted to say the right thing to her but I just ended up poking at an open wound. we talk a lot either text or other ways. over the last couple days she's been more concerned about me cuz a couple years ago my ex died. today she asked me how I was doin and how she was just thinkin about me all day. I don't want to steal her away or try to make her cheat. she seems to be happy and she tells me im gonna be her "dude of honor" at her wedding as long as I don't start anything. she knows I do have a thing for her. yet every now and then she will come up to me and hug me telling me she just needs to be held. what's goin on with this girl? she questions how I am in relatonships and she tells me that im the perfect boyfriend and am extremely loyal to my girl. how do I just stay friends with this girl? I tell her all the time that cheating is the worst thing a person can do. is she just playing with me? or is she scouting for someone new? what's goin on?
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reader, EPIC  +, writes (6 January 2010):
Caringguy is right.. I mean if you feel you can control your self by all means stay in touch - but not like ... In TOUCH ...With the touching - but as caringguy said move on unless she leaves this highschool boyfriend of forever times...GOOOD LUCK
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 January 2010):
She's playing with you a bit to be honest. She knows you like her and is keeping you around because you make fer feel better. But the fact is unless she leaves her boyfriend, this can't continue. I think you would do better to move on.
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