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writes:[Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together into this one post]Question 1: I jus found out yesterday that im pregnant. My bf has been distancing himself from me(not calling, texting, or coming over to my house). A few hours ago, i told him the news over the phone n he said we couldnt talk cuz 'he was out with his friend'. (He keeps using his friends as an excuse not to see me.) I asked if he can come over tomorrow to talk about it but he said he's 'busy'(its his day off). Im not an insecure person but im really starting to think that there's somebody else. We planned on conceiving this baby n he knows its hard for me to carry a baby to full term. I feel like the relationship is 80/20. Ive been doin the best that i can to make him happy. What should i do about this situation?Question 2: Im having no luck with guys at all. Ive been sexually abused my whole life n once i think i can b intimate wit guys, i get freaked out cuz they have penis's. Finally, i found a nice guy who i Fell in love with. We were suppose to get married but then i found out im pregnant(8 weeks as of today). N now he wont come over n he knows this is his baby that we planned together. Ive decided men r not rite for me. Im ready to experience women but im not sure how i go about doing it. Does anybody have any suggestions? Where do u go to meet girls?
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reader, Abccool2 +, writes (19 January 2010):
well on the lebian thing my sister is one and i can honestly say there is no problems with that at ALL so if you want whatever. but on the boyfriend friend exuse go over his house he cant use them as an exuse if he is alone and it would be illmoral for him to slam the door on a pregnant woman but if that doesn't work i am sorry- goodbye
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