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*yJay44
writes:So i used to be really good friends with this girl, we were bffl's and we'd talk on the phone everyday for hours and would talk on msn all the time and always text each other. And I guess through all that i liked her but she always seemed to have a boyfriend and i didnt want to ruin our friendship. Well we grew apart last year when she started dating someone else and to be honest i miss not talking to her anymore, and i wish we hadn't grown apart, now she broke up with her bf, and ive finally come to realize that i really do like her and i want to date her because normally her other bfs wouldnt be the best types (controlling, ignore her all the time, make her sad etc.) But i know i wouldnt treat her this way because i hated seeing her sad.So how should i go about telling her all this and asking her out because i cant just sit on the sidelines anymore and see her sad anymore and not expressing my true feelings
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): I think you should tell her exactly what you are telling us. It is so sweet and I think she'd think so too. Tell her how you really feel about her and let her know that you have always cared about her and just want to try out being in a relationship with her because you know you could take care of her and don't want to see her hurt anymore. I think you sound like a really sweet and genuine guy. I know you're nervous about it but just do it. If the outcome is bad, just tell her you still want to be friends. Why would she push you away when all you're doing is telling her you care about her? Just try it. Good luck!
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