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writes:I'm a 23 yr old male. I have no gf, just got terminated from my first full time job after three weeks (they decided to hire somebody else due to unexpected circumstances)... it's so frustrating. Why do these things always happen to me???? All the girls I'm interested in reject me, all the jobs or part time jobs I get.... I get laid off or terminated.... I see all these guys get gf's, get jobs.... so unfair!! Plus, I'm a virgin.... ughhhhhhh. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): There is a bad disease going around. It's been going around forever and it will continue being around forever.
crainalretitus, Ever heard of it ?? Guarenteed it will give you a shitty outlook on life.
Now go read what celiaaletta told you again. Getter yet, copy paste and print it out read it everyday.
Life is/was/always be "unfair" how you choose to deal with it is your responsibity.
"Losers always whine about their best, Winner's go home and f**k the Prom Queen." (S. Connery in "The Rock")
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): hey!
I know exactly what you mean, and your not alone in thinking life truely does suck sometimes.
I have graduated and been looking for a job for 4 months now, don't hear back from anyone, and i literally apply for every job i can, even crap ones with 7k a year,
yet my mother says i'm lazy and i'm not trying hard enough, which is a joke , i don't think i could be trying any harder, especially when i am her maid of the house!
could be worse, you could have a shit family who want you out of the house asap and make life very miserable.
I use to think i would never get a boyfriend or loose my vignity, but i just went and did it on holiday (classy), but now i know what the fuss is about i wish i hadn't! you will meet someone soon, think positive.x
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reader, AuntieGeorgia  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 Ok ...
Life is unfair, but its how you deal with it that really matters, if you concentrate on all the bad things in life you will get no where.
Start with the job, this is your perfect opportunity to find a job that your passionate about and one that you really like doing.
And as for the girlfriends part, there is a perfect person out there for everyone and finding them is frustrating but when you do you'll be happier than ever before. Just dont be afraid to talk to girls you like (But no cheesy chat ups!!)
Good Luck!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Hi, Anon!
Life is not unfair it is neutral. It is on how we react to life's flow that makes it unfair. We make our own happiness, why don't you try to make your own happiness from inside to outside... don't depend on what is from the outside to make you happy...start from within...know what you want...stop resisting...changes in life is inevitable...THINK POSITIVE with POSITIVE ATTITUDE!
We all have obstacles in life, mine is more worse than what you experienced but I take all my trials as a lesson...as part of my growth.
GOODLUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Try motivational classes x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 January 2010):
I was the same. Lost my job, no girlfriend and such. Now I have a fantastic girlfriend, and I've just started my own business Take everything a step at a time, rather than looking ate everything at once. Firstly, focus on getting a job, Go from there. You'll get there. Just focus on one thing at a time.
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