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writes: I am a 26 year old bisexual female. I have been attracted to a friend of year or so. We started hanging out, and our friendship grew from there. My situation is that, it seemed like we were attracted to each other, but nothing has come of it because we were both involved with other people (men) at the time. I have NO idea if she is even bi or straight, but I have recently come out to her. While expecting her to be a little uneasy about it at first, she wasn't, and now the friendly and innocent flirting is surfacing again. The other night, we went out, had a blast, and I really wanted to kiss her, but I didn't. While she was leaving the parking lot back at my place, she kissed me on the lips...no tongue. Just a simple, friendly kiss on the lips, in lieu of a hug. This has been driving my brain crazy, and I want to get an opinion. Is she bi, bi-curious, or simply just being friendly? What do I do next? I haven't brought it up. Thanks.
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reader, karob +, writes (25 January 2010):
karob is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI haven't spoken to her about this. We have been texting, and we are going to hang out this coming week. I am going to see what kind of a vibe I get from her, and talk to her either way. Hopefully all goes well! Thanks!
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reader, natmarie +, writes (21 January 2010):
I think you should send her a text and find out how she feels. Have you found out since you posted this?!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 January 2010):
If you are both single, and you really like her, then surely it's worth talking to her to find out how she feels. Even if she doesn't fancy you, at least you will know where you stand. I think you should talk to her.
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