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*ign
writes:OK people, I just need some advice. I have developed feelings for a girl who recently separated from her boyfriend (it wasn't planned!).On Sunday we met and it went better than I think I dreamt of, we held hands, cuddled and even kissed when saying goodbye.Anyway when we got home she texted me saying she enjoyed herself, but that she's sorry but at the moment she does want to be single, she just wants friends around her, so I said "Why are you sorry? I know this, you need time!!" so she said "Yea but I know how much u like me".So I said "Listen I do like you, but I'm not the type of guy that puts pressure on, but have we got a chance, because I don't want to be hanging around u if your not interested thinking go away?" so she said "You have a chance, better chance than any".So then I felt sorry for kissing her because even though it was mutual I shouldn't have done it, and I just feel wrong for inadvertently trying to push her, I've apologised like 4 times, so she even said "don't apologise, I enjoyed it".Is there anything I should do? She's not the type of girl who wouldn't bluntly say the truth, so I think I do have a chance with her. But obviously I don't want to pressure her.
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reader, Xign +, writes (19 January 2010):
Xign is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you ever so much.
It's weird because I never been in this situation so I don't want to seem too clingy, or too disinterested LOL.
It's odd since Sunday she's phoned me e3very Morning and Night and sent oddles of text messages, so she obv isn't freaked out about things. Just gotta 'be cool'.
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reader, AuntieGeorgia +, writes (19 January 2010):
 Ok ...
She said that she needs time just to be single for a while, this is because girls like to get over their past relationships before jumping straight into another, You've already done great by telling her that you dont want to put pressure on her!
For now you just need to support her and help her get over this break up, what she needs at the minute is a friend, and she sounds like a lovely girl so when the time is right she will let you know!
Good Luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 January 2010):
Quite apologizing. She's not bothered at all. It happened, and for her it felt too soon. Just give her time, be a friend to her and see where it's going. But stop apologizing, she's said 4 times she didn't mind.
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