A
male
age
30-35,
*bby
writes:I'm so much with love with this girl, right from childhood i've loved her, she did love too, guess i'll say my first love but i never told her nor did i ask her out cos i felt maybe she's too good for me. Years passed, after series of relationships, i still find myself back loving her, even more. Now, i decided to take the bold step, i asked her out but turns out she's seeing another guy (her first in years), she wouldn't turn me down but told me i would've had her easily until now, i thought i was protecting her by not asking her out cos i was waiting till when i can love perfectly, we kept seeing each other but wouldn't give me a direct answer, i loved her way too much, I let my guard down while loving her completely, she loved me too but was afraid cos she was loving too much, she'd never felt that way, i was ready to give her the rest of my life, but suddenly she broke up giving me a NO, she told me she couldn't do this anymore, she told me she was going back to her boyfriend, whom she claimed she'd never loved... my heart was shattered, i've been trying to win her back but she wouldn't come back, i tried calling she wouldn't pick up.... i've loved her so much all my life, i just don't know what to do, how do people get through this, she's always in my brain, can't get her out no matter how hard i tried... what can i do?
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reader, sexquestions  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Well man, i would suggest finding a hobby, something that wont remind you of her. Start focusing on your job if you have one. Spend more time with family. Or even go out and see what else is out there for you. The main thing to do is keep your mind off of her, and on something else... Something productive I find works best. Hope this helps!!
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