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writes:I'm 18, and I have been dating someone for almost six months now. I have always had a problem with connecting to people, but with him its always been different. I feel like I can spend the rest of my life with him, but he has two children with another woman that he says he needs to move in with to help with his children. I was alright with this until he told me he might still love her. He ended up breaking up with me, and although he told me it wasn't to be with her, but that he was scared to be with someone that actually loved him. I just don't know if I believe him. Now he wants to get back together. I'm not sure if I should or not. I love him, yes, but I don't know if its best. Would it be wise to take him back
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 January 2010):
No. Clearly he's not over her at all. He's just come back to you because it's not working out with her and he sees you as a back up. My advice is to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): It would be best for you to make sure that you are definitely in love with eachother, if so then try it out but if there is any possible harm that may happen to the relationship in the future, then dont. Its not wise to get involved in something that will end up breaking your heart.
I wouldnt enter the relationship if he is still living with her. explain this to him and try to work something out that will work for both of you.
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