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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years. because of our families and backgrounds we have had to move to different countries for university. neither of us are ready to let go and we are hoping to see each other during holidays but at best it will be twice a year. our relationship is still good but its difficult, sometimes because the time difference is about 9 hours, and especially with our age (18) it seems unrealistic to most of our friends to continue our relationship. he has been my best friend and boyfriend for so long, and i can't see myself with anyone else right now. has anyone been in this situation before? what should i do?
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reader, Guitarist  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 Well firstly, there's a saying 'love holds no bounds' If you care for him then there's no reason you two can't work through this. True, you won't see each other as much but that will make the time you DO spend together much more sweeter. There's not a great deal of advice I can give you about this I'm afraid. But if I were in your poisition, I'd arrange times to visit and vice versa. Eventually you might even decide to move closer or move in together? Once your university courses are over, there should be no holding back. Just be patient. If you two are destined to be together, it will all work out.
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